• Monday , 10 December 2018

How to handle teenage children

teenage children

Teenage time is so important and special time for a human life. At this time many thing change in a person’s life. Here the role of parents is vital. Often we see the teenagers are so arrogant and rude towards their parents. They do not understand parent’s words. For this misunderstand create among them. This is so harmful for their mentality. Today I want to introduce some vital elements for the parents to upbringing their teenage children in a proper manner.


As a child go into their teen age, many matters will begin change. For giving a better future for your child and help them you need a correct direction at all. You also need to change your attitude, your expectation towards them. You need to create a friendly environment for them. Loving, structured, supportive, safe environment is so much important that time.


I know this is not east to deal with these age people. You have to more tolerable, patient for their better life and better future.

Treat them as they are


We see the problem most that teenage people do not like treat them as a child. You know your child is not small child and also he or she is not adult. So treat them as they are. They are not much develop to taking a decision or taking a responsibility. So keep less expectation from them. In this situation most critical situation create. If you are disappointed that he or she continue the mistake, you should think in their side. You should search the root cause what the main problem. Sit with them talk with him or her as a friend. What types of situation they face, what are the problems occurring with them and then try to solve these problems together. That is the right way of solve relationship problems between both of you.

Give them some freedom


Please do not give restriction so much. If you do it they will hide matters from you. Give some freedom so that they can enjoy their life. If they are trying to make any wrong decision then be restrictive but in a friendly manner. Please try to ensure them you are the only well-wisher of him or her. Prove them that their behavior are responsible for their freedom or restriction. Prove that you want to give freedom, but if he or she chose wrong things you will be not allow them. Say them openly you are uncomfortable if any awkward situation create.



Create clear boundaries

Many teenagers do many wrong things in this time you know that. They trying to show their power forward others. You need to create clear cut boundaries for you teenage child. You should to talking with them that these are your rules and regulation. These are harmful for you and these cause of harm. So you should talk as they have some house rule. Not use offensive words, try to talk with them in a friendly manner. The boundaries should be less but they should be clear to them.


Try to trust them

Please do not be suspicion with them. If they understand that you are not trusting them they will be more arrogant with you. I know teenagers are facing many trouble. But you should not only focus on their mistakes or future risks. You should also focus on their good works and possibility, opportunity. If you have any doubt for them directly ask them do not suspicious them. If they break trust for any reason trying to build up it again. Forgive them because you are the most important person of his or her life. Try to prove that they are also most important person of your life.


These are the tips for you respective parents. Hopefully it will helpful for you.




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